I am currently 21 weeks + 1 day and 20 days away from 24 weeks, or, viability. Am I the only one desperately counting down to this milestone? I know that as of 24 weeks its not like I could birth a fully developed baby guaranteed to survive. But it is comforting to know that in 3 weeks, if something goes wrong, something could at least be done to try and save the baby.
I know this is a morbid thing to focus on. But the past several weeks have been scary as I have felt like once you’re in the late teens/early twenties weeks of your pregnancy, you’re somewhat in open water. You’re far enough along where something tragic could happen, but not far enough along for anyone to be able to do anyting to stop it.
Had I not experienced bleeding last month (and way too much googling over what SCH’s can lead to), I probably wouldn’t be so focused on this. But, at the moment it’s the only thing keeping me sane as I’ve continued to dream up new fears every week.
On Monday of this week I had an appointment with the MFM doctor. This was an appointment requested by me to check in on my SCH. The MFM said he did not see it, only a marginal sinus (I believe this is a placental lake?) which was not a threat, and not the same thing as an SCH. In addition, I have had no fresh blood in 5 weeks and no old blood in 3 weeks. The fear has not left entirely but I did feel marginally comforted after the appointment. They also did my fetal echo (required for all IVF patients), and fortunately it was perfect!
Something that has been bothering me a bit is the onset of Braxton Hicks. I seem to have started them earlier and with more frequency than other first time mom’s. Mine started around 19w and I can have up to 10-12 per day, though not every day. Of course it didn’t take long for that to instill the fear of PTL in me. Plus, they are just plain uncomfortable. I’m trying to rest as much as possible and drink a lot of water.
I have also started to feel the baby move, which is amazing but also kind of weird! It feels like a little snake swimming around in there. But I love knowing that it’s an experience that only baby and I will share. My bump has popped and there is no mistaking now that I am pregnant. I still haven’t purchased a single thing as I don’t feel ready to do so, though I am starting to get pressure from my family and husband to begin preparing. With (hopefully) a full 19 weeks to go, I feel I have plenty of time left.